Episode 5: You Canโt Hack Your Way to Better Sleepโฆ Or Can You?
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Youโve heard about cherry juice for better sleep, but what about banana peel tea? Or NyQuil chicken? (Donโt try this one at home, folks!). If youโve been on the Internet, itโs impossible to avoid the proliferation of sleep tips, tricks, and โhacksโ that have popped up โ all of which claim to be the key to falling โ and staying โ asleep, and fast.
But do they actually work? Listen as Dr. Harris and Dr. Raj Dasgupta dive deep into 2024โs most popular sleep hacks to separate fact from fiction โ so you know exactly which ones are worth trying (and which to avoid!).
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Dr. Raj: If you go to bed angry, the wrong things come out. You get secondary anxiety. So just, there are certain things you just donโt want to talk about. Finances before going to bed. Family members before going to bed. Watching the news before bed.
In 2024, they did a survey about what were the things preventing people getting good sleep. And it was watching TV, specifically the news. The news gives everyone insomnia, dude!
Dr. Shelby: Welcome to Sleep Talking with Dr. Shelby where we really want to know, how are you sleeping? Really. Are you sleeping? Two-thirds of Americans wake up feeling groggy and weird. Wondering why they were up at three in the morning. Wondering if thereโs something wrong with them. If that sounds like you, you have come to the right place.
Iโm Dr. Shelby Harris, a licensed clinical psychologist, and Iโm the Director of Sleep Health at Sleepopolis, where we dive deep into all things sleep, so you can get the rest that you deserve.
Today, weโre talking about sleep hacks. Yes, that term that I cannot stand โ hacks. They may occasionally help when you find yourself tossing and turning, but if youโre constantly struggling to fall asleep and stay asleep, you may need to talk to your doctor.
Still, popular hacks are everywhere. Everywhere. Theyโre almost impossible to avoid. And to help us sort fact from fiction, weโve invited Dr. Raj Dasgupta, Pillar4โs Chief Medical Advisor, to go down the rabbit hole with us. The author of Medicine Morning Report: Beyond the Pearls, with appearances on The Doctors, Bill Nye Saves the World โ thatโs super cool โ ESPN and Larry King Now, the quadruple-board certified Dr. Raj is really just a regular dude. He really is.
So together, he and I will break down specific hacks, decide if they really work, and most importantly, discuss when to tell your doctor about your sleep problems. Dr. Raj, thank you so much for joining us today, and welcome to Sleep Talkin with Dr. Shelby.
Dr. Raj: Oh, Shelby, thank you for having me here. And you know, it all comes full circle. It just seems like yesterday, you were on my podcast, we introduced ourselves, and now weโre kind of playing for the same team. Look at us, dude.
DS: I love it, and I, I think that we both come from this same viewpoint when it comes to sleep medicine. So I have a feeling weโre going to be on the same page about a lot of stuff today.
DR: I think the only difference between us is that youโre super athletic and youโre winning marathon medals. And Iโm still going to In-N-Out hamburger, getting double doubles here in California.
DS: Oh, donโt be fooled. I have stopped at many an In-N-Out after my trips out West. I wish we had them out here in New York.
So youโre no stranger to social media. And Iโm sure you have seen a gazillion hacks that are out there. I mean, my favorite was the sleepy chicken where you cook chicken and NyQuil, which I will not recommend to anyone. I meanโฆ
So what do you think distinguishes a hack from practical sleep advice?
DR: You know what, because I have three kids and I have a four, an eight and a 10, and my 10-year-old teaches me words. I didnโt even know โhackโ was a word. It was a hip word. So sheโs like, Iโm doing this hack. And, you know, being on the older side, Iโm like, Is it a bad thing? And I realized these are, like, little tips that people come up with.
I think thereโs very limited evidence base behind most hacks, but you know, I think what they want to do is show you easy ways to accomplish something, to achieve a goal of some kind and hacks can be in anything. But of course, me and you, our eyebrows get raised up when you hear some of these hacks sometimes, because I think both of our instincts is that, where, where did you read that? And whatโs the evidence behind that? And I gotta tell you, I didnโt know about the, the NyQuil chicken. Iโm getting nightmares about that right now.
DS: Sleepy chicken. Sleepy chicken. Itโs amazing. But I think, you know, we know that getting good sleep can be really difficult, and hacks sometimes or often seem like quick fixes.
Do you think thatโs why theyโre tempting? Is that people have sleep issues and theyโre looking for a quick fix?
DR: You know, I think weโre doing a better message, not the best message to let everyone know that, hey, sleep is important. Sleep is one of those pillars of health. Thereโs our diet, thereโs our exercise.
So itโs nice to know that people want to keep good sleep, but sometimes the best sleep, the way to get it, itโs not easy. And itโs boring. And itโs all about my favorite letters, C.B.T. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, you know, and, you know, and me and you can make it exciting. But sometimes when you say, โWell, if I tell you that you could tape your mouth [shut]โฆโ If I told you you could eat a banana, you could put a pineapple plant in your room, why not? It just sounds good. You know what I mean? So of course, itโs just tempting. Itโs just tempting.
DS: Right. I always tell my patients that if it was as easy as, like, drinking tart cherry juice, I would have no job. Like, itโs like that. If only.
So, all right. So we had a lot of fun compiling a list of some of the sleep hacks from all around the internet, TikTok being the biggest area where I see a lot of the hacks put on there. So theyโre popular for sure, but now letโs see if we can actually help. So letโs go through some of them a little bit.
So you ready? Because our first hack is bananas, literally. So according to TikTok, some foods like bananas make you feel more sleepy. You can whip up frozen bananas for dessert. That is really delicious. But donโt toss the peel. Itโs packed with magnesium. So a lot of these hacks, the trend with bananas says that the peel and banana overall is a nutrient that can really induce sleepiness with magnesium in it.
And for the perfect nighttime drink, you should boil the banana peel for five to six minutes, add in a dash of cinnamon and a little bit of honey, and then youโve got yourself some soothing banana tea. Some people really swear by this banana tea for the magnesium and the sedating qualities.
So what do you think? Will banana tea be something that you think people should be adding to a wind down routine?
DR: Well, thatโs an easy one. The answer is no, but I think that my response would be, number one, if you want to get good sleep, donโt eat too late at night. I donโt care if weโre talking about eating ice cream, eating bananas or tart cherry juice.
You donโt want to eat right before you go to bed. Why? Because of four other letters โ GERD. Gastroesophageal reflux disease, heartburn, multiple awakenings, and arousals throughout the night. Not good for sleep.
Now, when I hear bananas, of course, there are a couple of key things that, you know, we know are favorites for the sleep hackers out there.
They love the word tryptophan. They canโt believe that amino acid exists. And me and you, because sometimes weโre smarty pants, you know, we know that tryptophan, goes on to make things like serotonin and melatonin. So, you know, they always say, โHey, get some tryptophan.โ
Of course, magnesium. Thatโs like the hottest thing ever. Everyoneโs like, hey, whereโs my little magnesium oxide? You know, we, and you both know magnesium is kind of a muscle relaxant. It helps out with anxiety. So conceptually, everything sounds cool. Potassium is in bananas. So if you get a lot of cramps at night, you can always write down, it helps out with the leg cramps, you know what I mean?
So. Conceptually, youโre always like nodding your head. And thatโs why I always tell my residents and fellows, itโs how you present it. If you present it like that, of course, why not?
DS: Itโs a cure.
DR: You know? Yeah! But itโs more than just, hey, eating that banana. But I will say this, you know, I do get late night munchies sometimes before going to bed, especially if Iโm watching some Netflix.
Bad sleep habit, but yeah, I would say before grabbing like Cool Ranch Doritos and your Choco Taco, if you want to have a banana, thatโs not that bad. You know, I wonโt go around boiling the peel to get the magnesium out there, you know, but I think that if you got to eat something, a bananaโs not bad.
Itโs definitely not a be-all, end-all, and conceptually some of the science sounds great, but me and you both know that what sounds good when youโre sitting down at a desk, doesnโt translate to good sleep without the foundation of it.
DS: Right. And this will be a theme throughout all the hacks pretty much. But if it works for you and youโre fine with it and itโs not causing any major disruption in your life, then go ahead, boil the banana peel. Iโm all for it. You do it.
But if itโs not working after a few tries, itโs probably not the thing thatโs going to help you.
DR: Totally.
DS: So you gotta let go of it.
DR: I got to throw this out there. And anytime you talk about magnesium people forget, you know, number one, this will be for everything. Itโs kind of like, thereโs no data that says taking a supplement beyond a dietary recommended allowance does anything. And if you take too much magnesium, you start pooping all the time, man.
DS: Yeah.
DR: People forget you take Mag Citrate when youโre all clogged up and you have constipation.
DS: Right. And it helps. Right. And the thing about magnesium is that I think people think about it like itโs melatonin, too. Melatonin is more of a sleep timing shifter than anything, and we do use it at certain times.
Magnesium, I always say, it just kind of chills you out.
DR: Yep.
DS: Itโs not going to make you sleepy necessarily, but it helps set the stage. But if itโs not working after a few days, move on to something else.
DR: I agree.
DS: All right, so letโs talk about hack number two, the warm shower. So take a warm shower about 90 minutes before bed.
So the idea behind this is itโll quickly raise your temperature, your core body temperature, prompting your body to cool itself down. Similar to what we want to have happen, that drop in your core body temperature about an hour or two before sleep. So what do you think about the warm shower, 90 minutes?
DR: So Iโm kind of excited about this because I think the teaching point when we talk about circadian rhythm in general is that circadian rhythm is not only about sleep. Itโs about our body temperature too. And my wonderful little phrase is going to be โ and you can borrow this, Shelby, whenever you want โ when you lay down, you cool down, when you get up, you warm up.
DS: Oh, I like that.
DR: Yeah. And so what happens is when we talk about where did that warm bath come from? And it technically is the warm bath. But of course, many people donโt really have a bath so we say shower. And Iโm kind of a shower dude myself.
So the whole concept is that youโre raising your body temperature and making your body warmer. And itโs really that decrease, the slope of decrease in the body temperature that really is going to be more in line with cooling you down and helping you get ready for sleep. So I love the theory behind it.
Iโd love a warm shower, because just taking a warm bath or shower, itโs just relaxing. You can close your eyes, let all your worries go away. So I got to tell you in general, and plus itโs good hygiene. You donโt want to go to bed all dirty. You know what I mean? Like if I came back from the hospital and not showered, my wife would kick my behind.
DS: Yeah, I get that.
DR: So Iโm going to say that once again, not the be-all end-all, but I like the hot shower. I like the science behind it. And itโs been around forever. Iโve always heard about the warm bath, warm shower.
DS: Yeah, the studies I think were done a long time ago, if I remember correctly, in Japan, like really long time ago.
But there werenโt that many, and thereโs not been that much research about the whole warm bath, warm shower, ideal amount of time if youโre doing a shower. But I usually tell people, like, 90 minutes before bed, do about a 20-minute, 15-minute, shorter. I mean, itโs not great for the environment, but โ
DR: Iโm like, why? You threw out 20 minutes.
DS: I know. [The baths] were originally 20 minutes, so a shorter shower for sure. But the idea of warming your body up and cooling yourself down. But I think the other thing too is that thereโs a lot of things that get mixed up on social media now. Like people are often telling people right at bedtime to take a hot bath or a hot shower.
Theyโre right before bed. And Iโm like, thatโs not making sense. We need it to cool down a little bit. So timing is everything. And just anecdotally, and I say this all the time, is that I donโt know of any research behind it, but Iโve had patients over the years, because I specialize in women who are perimenopausal and menopausal, that some of my patients have sworn by it helping their hot flashes.
Like I said, thereโs no data behind it, but whatโs the harm in trying a hot bath or hot shower a few times? See if it helps, go from there.
DR: And you know, whatโs funny? Now, the big hip thing is not a warm shower or hot bath. Itโs, like, a cold plunge.
DS: Oh, I know, right?.
DR: Thatโs your thing, because you after your marathon, did you jump in a cold plunge?
DS: I did after my first marathon, I have not done so since. I am not strong enough will-wise to be able to do it. Itโs not easy. Okay. So weโre, weโre giving, like, a kind of a check to the warm showers being a good thing for our biology. Itโs not necessarily going to solve all problems, but it does help some people for sure.
So hack number three. Brain tapping. So this hack has to do with how our brains naturally follow repeating rhythmic patterns. So lying in bed with your eyes closed, tap a steady rhythm on your thighs, alternating from the left to the right with each tap. And then you breathe in and you breathe out on a count of four.
So little by little you slow the rhythm down and your brain is supposed to follow. So what do you think about brain tapping?
DR: So I knew I was coming on this podcast and, you know, I read the notes, youโre like brain tapping. I wasnโt super familiar. So I had to, like, YouTube it. I had to TikTok it a little bit. And I really thought when they said tapping, it was like tapping into your, you know, your temporal lobe or tapping into your frontal lobe. I didnโt literally know itโs like tapping on your brain. Oh my God. So I got to tell you, of course, being in the bigger scheme of why itโs very benign, I like the breathing. I like the whole rhythmic thing.
I donโt think thereโs any downside, and some people get really passionate about this. You know what I mean? There are like some docs talking about brain tapping, you know?
So Iโm going to say because itโs not eating anything, not putting anything on your body. Itโs about mental and visualizing all these things, very limited downside, you know? And some people are like, Hey, if you want to go to bed pretty quick, do some โ and thereโs different degrees of brain tapping too, you know what I mean?
So it took me a while to kind of get into it. Iโm not reallyโฆ I donโt like the title of it. I think me and you need to come up with a new title of it. So it can take off, you know, weโll charge TikTok. But I donโt see much downside in it. So what would you say?
DS: Yeah. So the way I look at it is itโs, I mean, there are actually psychotherapies that look at using tapping, not my area of specialty by any means, but when I look at the tapping here, and itโs rhythmic tapping, that I think really serves more of the almost meditative mindfulness component. So itโs something that youโre able to focus on.
And one of the things that I say all the time with my patients and even on this podcast is that meditation is a wonderful, wonderful tool for sleep. Not necessarily to meditate yourself to fall asleep to.
I have people practice meditation during the day, but this is something to help kind of focus your brain or give yourself something to focus on. So the tapping, your breathing. Itโs just a nice thing to help kind of be a placeholder and calm your body and your brain down so youโre not worrying about anything and everything else.
DR: So this is something that me and my wife always kind of debate about. So, you know, the whole rule is if youโre in bed, and you canโt fall asleep in like, you know, 20 minutes or so, stimulus control, out of the bed, and do something else.
DS: Yeah.
DR: But we all had those really rough nights where you canโt sleep. So my wifeโs technique is that, hey, you know what she does is like, even if she canโt go back to bed, she like closes her eyes and kind of, air quote, meditates. You know what I mean?
DS: Yep.
DR: And she almost feels like she kind of goes in and out of sleep and she has sleep misinterpretation, and it works for her. And I, I brought it up because you mentioned the word meditate. And I think that itโs so nice to be in a peaceful place, but let me throw this to you.
Whatโs that balance between that 20 minutes, stimulus control, versus hey, just close your eyes and get that โ just relax in bed. You know what I mean? Do you ever debate about that?
DS: Oh, yeah, yeah. So for, for listeners, so the idea of stimulus control is that the idea is if youโre not sleeping well, itโs you get out of bed after about 20 minutes.
Now, some people get very hard and fast with the 20-minute rule, and I donโt love that because it makes people want to look at the clock or now get hyper-focused on how long itโs been. And one of the cardinal rules when it comes to insomnia treatment is stop looking at the clock throughout the night, so.
DR: Um-hm.
DS: So I always say to people, the idea behind stimulus control is really so that youโre not in bed, getting the bed to be associated for things other than sleep and sex. So if youโre there and youโre really anxious, your brain is on fire, youโre โ what I see happen more is that people start worrying about sleep, getting annoyed, frustrated. Theyโre trying to force themselves to get sleepy by lying really still.
Thatโs the sign that, okay, itโs been about 20 minutes. about get out, go do something else, quiet, calm, relaxing. But if youโre in bed and youโre in and out, I always say sleep is the lack of conscious awareness. So if youโre in and out, youโre not having an anxious thought process.
Youโre not frustrated. Youโre not trying to force sleep to happen. And like your wife, sheโs kind of just focusing on some breathing or something like that. I have no problem with that. Because sheโs probably in and out a bit and itโs not associating the bed with frustration, which is really the thing that we donโt want the bed being about.
So I kind of have, I have levels of when I want people to get out of bed more than anything.
DR: And you can imagine, like, you should see this. Iโm like, honey, itโs been 20 minutes. Get out of the bed. No, you get out.
DS: Yeah. People get very โ itโs so true. People get very fixated on that 20 minutes because the rule is get out of bed after 20 minutes. And I donโt love that.
DR: Yeah, totally.
DS: Hack number four. Wear socks. I have personal opinions about this. So in order to sleep, your body needs to lower its core body temperature like we were talking about before with the bath. Wearing socks is one of the quickest ways to do this as it circulates more blood to your feet.
So tell me about it.
DR: So I think the concept of this is going back to my favorite phrase about your body needs to cool down when you lay down, to warm up when you get up, and itโs all about regulating body temperature and how do we do that? We have to actually retain heat or dissipate heat, meaning heat has to go away, and where does that happen?
It happens in the skin because the skin has a lots of these vessels called capillaries. So one way to do that is to improve circulation, so more blood goes in these capillaries, so we can either retain or dissipate heat, is in theory by wearing socks. So once again, Iโm, Iโm really kind of geeked out and dorky when I hear science. I just love talking about it.
But then again, can you bring the bench research to the bedside? Itโs tough. So Iโm going to tell you about me. Like, I canโt sleep with socks on. Thatโs not my jam. You know what I mean? It just feels weird to me. So of course, the whole thing is you want to be relaxed. You want to make sure that you have your favorite beat up concert t shirt when you go to bed like I do, you know?
So I want you to wear what makes you happy. But of course, if you have freezing cold feet you may want to think about it. And if you havenโt noticed, I love my wife. Sheโs a rheumatologist.
And one of her pet peeves, she sees people who have something called Raynaudโs. And Raynaudโs is associated with many kind of autoimmune type diseases, something called scleroderma.
And if you get exposed to cold, oh my God, your hands and feet turn white and blue and red. Itโs painful. So if you do suffer from that, definitely wear some socks. You know what I mean?
But I would say itโs not a game changer for me. Itโs whatever makes you feel better. But the science we talked about is accurate. Thatโs about it.
DS: Yeah, I agree. I actually have Raynaudโs myself. So I know very well. I wear socks to sleep at night, but I wear like big fuzzy kind of fleecy socks that just, like slipper socks, that are amazing. But I actually like to keep my bedroom, because we always talk about wanting to cool your body off, so I like to keep my bedroom cool. My husband loves it cool. My kids love their rooms cool. But Iโm so cool. I mean, weโre talking like 68 degrees. Itโs not like freezing, but Iโm so cold. We keep it so cool that my hands and my feet get really cold at night.
So I wear the socks to help with the dissipation of the heat to keep my feet warm. But then I wake up a few hours later and Iโm usually pretty warm [so] I take them off. So it does help me to keep a cool body, and keep a cool room at the beginning of the night so that I can acclimate a bit better. So Iโm a fan of socks to bed. If you want to do it by all means, but I donโt think, like I said, itโs a cure for insomnia for most people.
All right, so military sleep hack. This is a really big one that I hear about all the time. So, first detailed in 1981 in the book Relax and Win: Championship Performance, allegedly developed by military officials to help soldiers fall asleep in wartime conditions, minimizing fatigue and exhaustion.
So hereโs how it works: Relax everything in your face, including the tongue, jaw, eye muscles, and then you drop your shoulders as far down as theyโll go. Then you follow that with your upper and lower arms to relax, and then one side at a time you do your arms. And while youโre doing that, youโre breathing out. Youโre relaxing your chest and your legs and youโre working with your thighs, then working down to relax your body, essentially from head to toe.
Itโs very similar to a progressive muscle relaxation that we do in anxiety management a lot. So then we ask people to try and clear your mind for 10 seconds before thinking about one of the following images. So your bodyโs now relaxed and you want to really think about either lying in a canoe on a calm lake with nothing but a clear blue sky above, or youโre lying in a black velvet hammock in a pitch black room.
And people have sworn that after practicing this for six weeks, they claim that they fall asleep in under two minutes with this hack. So what do you think?
DR: Well, I always kind of chuckle, and God bless our military, I love them immensely and dearly. Thanks for serving our country. But I donโt know if the military should be giving advice about sleep. You know what Iโm saying?
I have friends in the military, and theyโre not pro-sleep. Theyโre like, wake these poor men and women up in the middle of the night to do their training. So like, itโs, I always find it kind of strange that itโs called the military technique, which should be how to stay up late and protect our country, you know?
DS: Right.
DR: But I will say the concepts behind it are awesome. Like, Iโm not going to say, itโs called the, I heard about that two minute thing, I mean, God bless it. If it does it for you or you, Iโm not going to say it doesnโt. I think thatโs setting the bar really high for two minutes, but I love what you were just kind of emphasizing on.
I love progressive muscle relaxation. That is one of my jams. Itโs hard to do, but youโre, it starts with the fingers and you move right up in your face. I love it. I love imagery. I love, you know, things that you can think about. So I think the core things that make up the military technique, key things about it, imagery relaxation is totally awesome.
DS: Yeah, I think the thing, too, to keep in mind, too, is when weโre talking about using it in the military as a hack, these are people who are pretty sleep deprived already, who are running so many hardcore operations. I mean, I canโt even imagine how sleep deprived people are, so that it might work for them to be able to fall asleep in really tough situations. Right? Where they might not be in the most comfortable of situations or at varying times.
But if youโre someone who has a more routine sleep wake schedule, you can give it a try for sure, but it might not work as fast as in two minutes because you might not be at the same level of sleep deprivation as someone who might be in the military.
DR: Well summarized. Well summarized.
DS: There you go. So, hack number six. This is a really popular one. So screen dimming apps and blue light glasses. So blue light can impede the release of melatonin and make us feel more alert. Unfortunately, nearly all of our devices give off blue light. So to combat that, people are really stressing the use of screen dimming apps, blue light blocking glasses, really just limiting devices before bedtime. So kind of a sleep hygiene, sleep hack kind of thing. But whatโs your take on it?
DR: You know, I think the big thing about them is the science is totally spot on. You know what I mean? Itโs all about, hey, we have different wavelengths of light. Thereโs blue light and blue light will actually prevent the release of melatonin.
So I definitely like as, you know, night approaches, you actually want to get away from light, so melatonin can be released and kind of start that whole sleep cycle. But what is the main problem? The main problem is we should say, Hey, you should transition to sleep, you should have a sleep routine. And, you know, maybe not bring that cell phone, that iPad into the room.
I think itโs going to be, hey, letโs nip it at the bud, which is you shouldnโt be in a situation where if you have insomnia, youโre doing these things and saying, hey, Iโm just gonna shade out the blue light and it should be okay. So Iโm gonna give it โ love the science. I always talk about the blue wavelength of light during many interviews just like you.
But I always go back to, hey, if you have insomnia, you shouldnโt be doing these things in bed to begin with.
DS: Right. And actually the research more recently is coming out with being less hard and fast about blue light being the complete devil for everything when it comes to sleep. So people, I think are just, I mean, I see people who are just trying to optimize everything and theyโre in these like reddish tinted rooms and theyโre doingโฆ itโs really, itโs, itโs not great, but itโs not as horrible, I think, as everyone makes it seem.
But the bigger issue in my opinion, like you were saying, was itโs also like, What the heck are you looking at? What are we doing? Are we getting sucked into binge-watching stuff, work, social media, all that stuff is not helpful either. So that, in my opinion, is sometimes a bigger issue than just watching an episode of, I donโt know, The Office for a little while to quiet your brain down before bed.
So then itโs not great, but itโs really the devices that weโre getting sucked into that are making us then stay up later or making our brains just more active.
And then the one other thing to keep in mind that you were talking about was with it suppressing melatonin, right? Thatโs a big issue. All these people are taking melatonin supplements left and right to try and help themselves with their sleep.
And then youโre on all these screens that are probably, at least somewhat, you know, diminishing melatonin.
DR: Well, I caught something you kind of slipped in there and Iโll bring it up. You mentioned the red light. So thatโs the other big thing that weโre always getting interviews about lately. What about the red light? You know?
And in theory, all this is theory, itโs supposed to release more melatonin. And youโre right. There are these lightbulb Nazis out there that have the blue light for this, the red light for that. And it was interesting. I just did some interview about in 2024 they did a survey about what were the things that were preventing people getting good sleep.
And it was watching TV, specifically the news.
DS: Yes.
DR: The news gives everyone insomnia, dude.
DS: And I donโt care if you put on some red glasses or blue light blocking glasses, if youโre watching things about the news nowadays before bed, good luck going to sleep even with blocking the light.
DR: No oneโs going to bed anymore.
DS: I know. And itโs just, itโs a big problem that I think people are not always willing to address. And the, the simple thing that I always talk about is like, just get an alarm clock, get your phone out of the room, get a real alarm clock. So you donโt even have that temptation at bedtime.
DR: No, totally. 100 percent.
DS: Hereโs one that I, I actually donโt know as much about. I donโt, I havenโt come across this one so much.
So hack number seven, so get a pineapple plant. Several types of plants like the snake plant and aloe vera have been shown to purify the air, removing harmful substances like formaldehyde.
Additionally, NASA conducted a survey which found the pineapple plant could cure snoring by producing additional moisture, preventing nasal passages from drying out and closing up.
Please tell me more about this one because I donโt know this.
DR: So itโs awesome. I think your, your manager, director did some good research. That was one of my first interviews I did at USC, a long time ago. And I thought it was cool because it catches peopleโs attention, the pineapple plant. So anyways, the big thing about this is I was more pro this being a pulmonologist than a sleep doctor because, you know, itโs all about something called photosynthesis.
And if some of your fans are like, why did he bring up that, like, biochem word, what is photosynthesis? Itโs the opposite of what we do. And what do I do? I suck up all the oxygen and I breathe out carbon dioxide. But what plants do, and why itโs cool to be green, is that plants actually use carbon dioxide to actually make oxygen. Thatโs photosynthesis.
So when youโre in a room at nighttime, itโs nice to have a plant because of the fact that itโs going to be taking all that carbon dioxide out of the air and give you more oxygen. And itโs going to provide moisture. So itโs going to be a nice thing to do when we talk about, hey, if you have an irritated allergic type nose, you know what I mean?
And you have a little more moisture in the room because you have a plant there. Well, itโs going to allow you to breathe through your nose and not breathe through the mouth, where you get all that snoring, you know? So Iโm pro-green, I like a plant. Itโs called a pineapple plant. That one does it kind of the best, you know what I mean?
So I would say, I donโt think thereโs any downside. People might think youโre kind of weird for having a pineapple plant next to the bedside, but itโs all right. Itโs all right.
DS: So youโre not cooking the plant in anything. Itโs just literally like right there.
DR: Donโt cook the poor pineapple plant.
DS: Everything I feel like is getting cooked in NyQuil or a banana peel nowadays. All right. So pressure points. Letโs see this one.
So massaging incredibly sensitive parts of the body is believed to, by many, to increase relaxation. So you use pressure points to hack your sleep. Like, to do that, you would try rubbing your temples, youโd rub between your eyebrows, behind the ears, below your wrist, on where your pressure points are. So what are your thoughts on this?
DR: Well, you know what? This is kind of a shout out to the weighted blankets out there. You know what I mean? Because itโs all about those pressure points. This is a shout out to my wife.
One of the major things she sees quite a bit is of people suffering from fibromyalgia. And they definitely have their pressure points.
And in general, I do like a massage. I gotta be honest with you. You know what I mean? If I get a massage, Iโm going to fall asleep because itโs what happens. So I think the concept, if thereโs a point where if you do a gentle rub, combine that with part of your sleep routine, combine that with breathing, combine that with relaxation. Thereโs really no downside in doing it.
But once again, Iโm sure your phrase and my phrase, that sleep is very individualized and it works for some and not others, but I kind of like it. What about you, Shelby?
DS: I think same thing. Itโs like, if it helps to relax you, thatโs not a bad thing at night. I mean, who could not use more relaxation nowadays in this world?
So if itโs something that can help you to set the stage for sleep, thatโs great. Donโt expect itโs necessarily going to induce sleepiness. . So, but, but if itโs something that can help relax you, by all means, give it a try. For sure.
Alright, so letโs try another hack. So share good news. I like this one. So, according to a sleep study from 2017 conducted in-person and over the phone, participants slept better and fell asleep more quickly after their partners told them something good from their day. What do you think about that?
DR: I just love that concept in general. I think communication is so awesome and like what my wife does is when we get home, part of our bedtime routines, we ask each kid what was the best part of their day and we go around the room and I love that. And I love like, you know, sharing things that, you know, that are important to me, that are stressful for me, it makes me less stressful.
So I love communicating and I will say this, is that there was some sort of study, a kind of, I need to kind of, Iโm reaching a little bit here, is that you really shouldnโt argue or have a fight, or go to bed angry at each other. And part of the thought process of that is that, you know what I mean, that, you know, you- if you go to bed angry that, you know, the wrong thing has come out. You get secondary anxiety.
So thereโs a whole thing about, you know, thereโs certain things you just donโt want to talk about. Finances before going to bed, family members before going to bed, watching the news before the bed. So anything thatโs opposite of that, which is sharing wonderful, positive things. I love it.
DS: Yeah, I think thatโs a great idea. And the thing, I think it also widens your view of the world. There has been research looking at gratitude before bed too, and that gratitude can be really beneficial for sleep in general.
And itโs not about just being, you know, saying, Oh, I have only good things in my life and Iโm ignoring all the negative things and the neutral things. Thatโs not the point of it. Itโs just helping to really widen the viewpoint, so that youโre not thinking about everything negative.
So the 4-7-8 breathing method. So you place your tongue on the roof of your mouth, and then you breathe in through your nose for four seconds, hold your breath for seven seconds, and then you breathe out through your mouth for eight seconds.
So the idea behind this technique, the inventor, Dr. Andrew Thomas Weil, you may have heard of him. He recommends practicing it at least twice a day, four to eight sets each time. So what are your thoughts on that?
DR: Okay, Iโm going to like switch my sleep hat to my pulmonary hat right here. So I love breathing techniques. I love diaphragmatic breathing for a lot of my patients, asthma, COPD, pulmonary fibrosis, you name it.
So a couple things is that I am always pro nasal breathing. Thatโs the way weโre supposed to breathe. And why do we have to do it that way? Itโs for a few things. Number one, breathing through the nose helps humidify the air. You know what I mean? If you suffer from things like asthma, usually we call that cold asthma because you go out in the morning, itโs so cold. So you want to humidify the air.
If youโre allergic and have asthma, what does the nose do? It has things called cilia. And cilia will filter the air, to take all those yucky, yucky things from the air and help filter it. So it does humidification. It does filtration. And there is some data that says by doing nasal breathing, it may possibly release something called nitric oxide, which is a dilator that helps out with blood pressure.
I donโt believe it as much, but what I do believe is when you do nasal breathing, it definitely helps relax you. Thatโs why we combine 4-7-8 breathing techniques, relaxation, and everything.
So I like it. I think it should be part of other meditation and relaxation techniques. And itโs good for just lung health. So definitely Iโm going to give it two thumbs up.
DS: Yeah. And I think the 4-7-8 part, you know, thereโs a gazillion different ways to do deep breathing exercises. I learned so many in graduate school. I think the 4-7-8 is just one way to give you something to focus on while youโre doing it. It helps to build in that mindfulness aspect.
So youโre counting, you can be more mindful while doing it. If your mind wanders, bring yourself back to the numbers that youโre doing. So I give it a big check mark as well. I think itโs a great thing to help set the stage.
So writing down your thoughts. So journaling can play a real good role for some people, they swear by this, as an anxiety reducer for them. Or it will help with unresolved stress from the day.
So free writing for just 15 minutes about anything on your mind, just kind of writing the heck out of everything, can help you feel more clear headed and ready for sleep. So what do you think of that?
DR: Dude, I totally love it. So for a couple of things. So I would say one thing on that one, if thereโs any, like, sleep fellows or residents listening, thereโs a difference between a sleep log and a sleep journal.
I think of sleep logs like, when did you wake up? What time did you go back to bed? Did you nap? You know what I mean? And then when we talk about the sleep diary, the sleep journal, itโs going to be like, hey, what did you eat? What did you do that day? Did you have a fight that day? So itโs more encompassing.
And when we talk about things like insomnia, one of the best things I love about insomnia is making a journal. Writing down your thoughts. You know what I mean? And especially if youโre having nightmares or anything like that, itโs good to know what happened during that day. Itโs also, itโs good practice, itโs good writing, and youโll probably get some clues about whatโs going on and things that you shouldnโt do during the day or maybe should do more.
DS: Yeah. I always say, whatever you go to bed with, thatโs on your brain before bed. If you donโt deal with it, itโs going to be there at three in the morning when you wake up. So you got to kind of journal and get stuff out. So, or at least if journaling isnโt for you, find some way of processing some of your day.
Sleep is not an on-off switch where youโre just going, going, going, and then you pass out. You never really actually think about your day. And journaling is a nice structured way to do that.
DR: Oh, let me throw this out there, because my patients do this, I got to give them a heads up. So when youโre doing a sleep log or journal, for me or for any sleep doc, you donโt want to do that in the middle of the night when you wake up, you know what I mean? Youโre supposed to do it in the morning.
DS: Yeah, my instructions are always right before bed, and then in the morning. I do not want you looking at the clock. And itโs not gonna, itโs not intended to make your sleep worse.
DR: Whereโs my pen? Whereโs my pencil?
DS: Exactly, exactly.
What sleep hacks really stand out for you today? Or what tip would you give that we didnโt mention?
DR: Alright, so I dunno if this is gonna be a hack, but you know, Iโm always playing the family angle because Iโm, Iโm in the trenches right now. And I think that hack is going to be the word patience, you know?
And I really feel that if you wanna get good sleep. Itโs not just you, itโs you and your bed partner. Itโs you and the family. Itโs you and the family dog, you know? So I think that being patient with everyone, and I had to do that a lot lately because of that time change, you know what Iโm saying? And I didnโt think it was gonna hit our family that hard, but it kind of did. Kids got a little, a little more rambunctious in the morning.
So I think my hack for everyone is always be patient, especially with anyone out there, especially if youโre gonna have kids. And what is one thing that really helped us? You know, kind of transition to sleep? You know, kids are growing up, which kind of stinks.
We used to do a family puzzle together. And I kind of liked that because of the fact that weโre there and weโre doing something thatโs not technology and that worked for us during that period of life.
So I think the answer is find what you could do as a family together. And I think the one I really loved is talking and sharing positive things about your day. So yeah, thatโs, thatโs my little two cents right there.
DS: Yeah. And I love the patience aspect, itโs like, you know, I think hacks, the problem with hacks, in my opinion, is they give the idea that thereโs a quick fix for everything and there isnโt always. And sleep is the sort of thing where I say this day in and day out, there is individual variation from night to night.
So a banana peel might help you some nights, but it might not help you every night. So itโs about trying things out, being consistent with it, really making longstanding changes. If something youโre doing is not working after two weeks, talk with someone. It really is probably not the solution for you. So really donโt ignore it.
But if the things that we talked about are helpful and you find theyโre great and theyโre not interfering with your life, then by all means, go ahead.
Thanks for joining us. Dr. Raj, really appreciate it.
DR: Super welcome, SleepDocShelby.
DS: Thanks for listening to Sleep Talking with Dr. Shelby, a Sleepopolis original podcast. If youโre not routinely getting a great nightโs sleep, remember to follow and subscribe for more Sleep Talking wherever you get your podcasts.
And for even more sleep tips, visit sleepopolis. com and you can also visit my Instagram page, @SleepDocShelby.
Todayโs episode was produced and edited by Freddie Beckley. Our Head of Content is Alanna Nuรฑez and Iโm Dr. Shelby Harris.
Until next time, sleep well.
